About Lily Alan | Hypnotherapy & Coaching for Anxiety

Meet Lily

Healing isn’t becoming someone new. It’s returning to yourself.

I help women over 40 who feel stuck in cycles of anxiety, people pleasing, self-abandonment, guilt and chronic stress reconnect with themselves and create meaningful change from the inside out.

Lily Alan, hypnotherapist and coach for women overcoming anxiety

For many years, I understood what it meant to adapt, withdraw, people please, and become who others needed me to be in order to feel safe. Eventually, I realised those patterns were not my identity. They were survival responses.

Like many women, I spent years disconnected from my own needs, emotions and inner knowing. I became skilled at holding everything together — supporting others, appearing capable on the outside — while feeling anxious, exhausted and overwhelmed within. What I didn’t understand at the time was that these patterns weren’t flaws to fix. They were intelligent adaptations created by a nervous system trying to stay safe.

Why overcoming anxiety means working beneath the surface

My own healing journey led me to the powerful connection between emotional trauma, the nervous system, subconscious beliefs and the body. What I discovered changed everything: lasting change doesn’t come from trying harder, pushing through, or forcing yourself to be different.

It comes from creating safety within.

Safety within means recentring in self-trust and honesty, so the identity and perceptions shaped by the outside world can naturally dissolve — allowing you to consciously reconstruct your life in alignment, from the inside.

A blend of hypnotherapy, breathwork and coaching

Using a combination of clinical hypnotherapy, breathwork, IEMT, nervous system regulation and trauma-informed coaching, I help clients understand the patterns that have shaped their lives — and gently release what is no longer serving them. Because healing isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about returning to who you were before survival became your primary way of being.

Training & qualifications

Alongside my personal healing journey, I’ve undertaken extensive professional training in hypnotherapy, emotional healing, nervous system regulation and trauma-informed practices. My approach combines evidence-informed techniques with compassionate, client-centred support — creating a safe space for deep and lasting transformation.

Dip. Adv. Clinical Hypnotherapy · Breathwork Facilitator · IEMT Therapist · Hypnotherapy for PTSD · Past Life Regression · Life Coach

As part of my holistic approach, I also offer Past Life Regression as a spiritual tool for those drawn to deeper self-exploration. While not a medical or therapeutic practice, this process can offer profound personal insight and reflection.

Seeing creates choice.
Choice creates freedom.

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Lily Alan

Seeing creates choice.
Choice creates freedom.

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